Why is that I can't just be mean to people? I want to but I am just not good at it. My ex-bf is driving me crazy. Every since he found out I am on the dating scene again he is constantly showing up and trying to spend time with my kids, like he's out to prove something to me. Unfortunately I am not feeling the same way, i just want him to leave me and my kids alone and move on with his life. I don't hate him, but I don't think I should have to share the goings on in my life with him. The other day he took my kids fishing and when he brought them to my house he arrived prior to me getting there. I asked my driving partner to please drop me at the corner so I could just walk home. It is not that he is not gentleman enough to take me to my door, but two things I did not want to witness a confrontation between ex-bf and driver and my kids were there. I am not ready to introduce my kids to my driving partner. He respected my wishes and dropped me at the corner.
Upon walking home I got the what he's not man enough to bring you home... Good grief seriously, he began giving me the 20 questions after letting himself into my home. I told him that it was none of his business how, or where I met this guy nor was it any of his business who he is or what I do with him. But he should be glad that I am not bringing anyone into my children's life yet. He received a phone call while he was at my house, which he later informed me was his girlfriend. Seriously?!? Here he is telling me what I should and should not do all the while he has multiple girlfriends which he is sleeping with. OMG
How do I get rid of him without being mean.... Please let me go...